Days dirty laundry

Hitman Animals

2015.05.30 20:33 CapnCaps Hitman Animals

A subreddit dedicated to videos/gifs of animals demonstrating hitman behavior.
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2021.01.15 06:43 dirtylaundrynashville

A place to discuss, gossip, snark about, and air the dirty laundry of Nashville celebs, influencers, and notable people. Snark welcome, just use best judgement.
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2022.03.14 18:35 OkBoat dropoutdirtylaundry

The subreddit to discuss dropouts new hit show, Dirty Laundry
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2023.06.02 16:14 Lomp84 List of symptoms - what's your best guess?

List of symptoms first, then additional details below:
What could the issue be? Is bottom of the coil dirty? Pressure/freon low? Plugged metering device? Additional details below.
I have switched on my AC yesterday for the first time this season. For a month or two I had only ran the fan a couple times for a day or so to help circulate air. I turned on the AC in the evening and mid-next day I notice it's not pushing out any air. I noticed before turning it off that there is a LOT of air escaping between the air handler and the cold air intake - like a back pressure. I turn it off for a few hours and changed the filter, which was surprisingly filthy for only about 2 months of use. I noticed when I turned it back on again it was fine for a few hours, then the same issue. I again noticed the escaping air and checked the drain, which I already cleaned with lye prior to switching this over from heat to cool and turning on for the season. I pulled the filter out and noticed it was wet and dripping in a spot, so I suspected the coil. At the coil, the intake lines were dripping with condensation, so I opened the access panel and the A coil was frozen over. I gave it several hours to thaw and also ran the fan only for half of this time to help speed that up. I checked the outside unit not expecting it to be too dirty since it usually isn't, but it was, so I cleaned it well with the hose. Once it seemed fully thawed and all air coming out of the access panel was lukewarm instead of cool, I closed up the access panel, which actually took 20-30 minutes bc it's a really tight fit, closed things up and ran it again and same thing - back pressure at the air handler where it meets the cold air intake was present, air was coming out of the vents pretty strong but then 4-6 hours later it was barely noticeable with your hand right over the vent, and the intake line to the coil is dripping condensation again, which makes me think the coil is frozen over again. What is the most likely issue here?
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2023.06.02 16:13 weirdo-jpg Help! How do I fix my issues with tone and coming across like a dick when I don't mean to?

As above, how do I work on policing my tone and not saying things that make me sound like a dick when I don't mean to? Sorry this is a long one. TLDR, I keep triggering my ADHD partner and I want to stop but don't know how.
My partner has ADHD and is extremely quick to react, it seems lately that every single day I'll say something in a tone that comes across wrong or in a way that comes out as dickish and he'll get instantly angry and I'll immediately burst into tears because I'm so upset that I upset him and I have a history of being abused which means being being angry at me is really triggering. He normally calms down quickly but at that point I'm a crying mess and can't communicate and any attempts at speaking will make me cry more and make me more upset so it's really hard to talk though and I end up feeling awful because I'm the one that triggered him in the first place so I feel like I shouldn't be so insanely upset and it's wrong of me to get so emotional when I caused the problem whether I meant to or not.
Examples include things like my partner came over and didn't take his shoes off before standing on the carpet and I said "can you please not step on the carpet with those on" but apparently my tone was off and I said it in a way that sounded like I was being an asshole rather than polite about it but I don't understand how my tone was off. For a bit more context, with my history of abuse I really struggled to say a lot of things or confront a person about anything, so asking people not to do things like stand on my carpets with dirty shoes is extremely new to me because I've never been brave enough to do things like that before. My partner has been trying to help me speak up and has been encouraging me to speak up but it seems like whenever I do I do it totally wrong and it ends up backfiring on me massively. So the more I try to speak and communicate the more I am messing up and the more problems I am making for myself.
But it's not just times where I ask him to do or not to do something, I'll misread a situation and make a joke or say something that I mean to come out one way but will come out a complete other way and he'll get instantly annoyed at that. Like he has this friend that isn't a very good friend to him and always messes him about but this friend has a lot over my partner so he's stuck being his friend even though he doesn't want to. (He's working on a plan to get away from this person). But I was trying to make a joke about how much an an arsehole this man is, I don't remember what I said or how I said it, but it got interpreted as if I was implying my partner was an idiot for being friends with him which I absolutely did not mean to do at all, which yeah, I would be extremely annoyed if I thought someone was calling me an idiot for a situation out of my control I was trying to get out of. So of course he blew up at me and of course I burst into tears over it.
The problem I have is I don't understand my tone, I don't know when I sound like a dick even after its pointed out to me I'm still confused on how my tone made me sound like an arsehole, so I don't know how to learn to control it? Or how I can find hidden meanings in what I say before I say it, I don't understand when people talking to me have hidden meanings they're intentionally saying so idk how to avoid saying things that could be interpreted as having hidden meanings.
I've tried talking to my best friend about it, she's autistic too. She says it is my fault and my problem and that I need to stop being so emotional because I'm the one triggering him so I shouldn't act like a victim. She says that I need to just start thinking harder about what I'm saying, how I'm going to say it, and if I'm unsure to just not say anything at all. But I don't know how to do that?
I'm honestly so distressed, this is happening nearly every day, I don't understand how to fix it but I'm desperate to. Can anyone please explain to me how to learn so I don't keep triggering my partner?
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2023.06.02 16:09 Redditismyteacher Being a parent in today’s modern society is miserable.

Life was a lot of hard work as an adult BEFORE kids came along. There was already a lot of drudgery keeping up with a full time job and life in general. But add in a kid and its been pure chaos. The drudgery of life has multiplied 3x. I have a needy child always demanding my time, attention, patience and so much more. It never ends.
You end up losing the majority of the free time you once had. You’re constantly tending to their issues from the moment they wake up to the moment they fall asleep. You can no longer be spontaneous in life, you always have a kid attached to your hip and you have to always be cognizant of what you do because you need to plan and coordinate your life around their needs and schedule. As much as you can plan though, they are so fickle and unpredictable. One day they are in a bad mood just because, the next day they are sick because they picked up the latest virus at daycare, so much sickness that long ago I lost count of how many times we have all been sick. When you inevitably get sick from their germs you don’t get to just sit in bed and rest. You still need to parent and take care of your kid. Bonus points: They become moody and harder to take care of since they aren’t feeling well. Oh, also they sleep worse. It’s a sick triple whammy. (Let me further elaborate on sleep later because that’s a whole issue on its own) Getting them to do what you need them to do is a exercise in frustration. The amount of cajoling required to get a toddler to do basic tasks makes you wanna scream; especially after they refused to brush their teeth for the 5th time. Then, half the time when something isn’t to their liking the end up throwing a massive tantrum because they can’t control their emotions. You can only discipline to a small extent because they are still too young to truly understand. Sometimes they get mad enough that they throw things and slap you out of frustration. You get yelled at and slapped but you still need to maintain calm and composure. They don’t know any better so they make a mess of your home. They leave their toys all over the place (under the sofa, all over the floor) They go through clothes like no tomorrow so now you also have much more laundry to do, and a messy house to clean. You try to keep up but eventually you succumb to the mess, its just too much to try to keep it clean.
But let me go back to the topic of sleep because boy oh boy I gotta tell you, for those of us with the kids that have/had sleep issues we know acutely how much it messes with you. Some kids struggle with sleep. That was toddler for the first year and a half of his life. He woke up many times a night. The sleep deprivation was traumatizing. When you get disrupted sleep for months on end you start going crazy. You can’t even function properly during the day. I had a screamer so he’d wake up screaming in the middle of the night. Night after night, week after week for so so long.
In the midst of this, you still need to do everything a adult needs to do on the daily. In our modern society, we’re all busy enough as it is. And people wonder why many opt not to have children anymore…
Just wanted to rant a bit..
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2023.06.02 16:01 RandomHypnotica 00s Pop Punk Rate

Hello all-american rejects, mothers of Stacy and Hoobastankarinas! It is finally time to rate one of the subgenres of all time - pop punk! Welcome to the 00s Pop Punk Rate.

Introduction - What Is Pop Punk?

Pop punk is a genre that was invented by musical artist Machine Gun Kelly in the year 2020.
No but really, despite the sendup of it MGK contributed, the subgenre actually has a long and storied history dating back to the 1970s. One could argue bands such as The Ramones were essential foundations for the genre, if not themselves being a pop punk band. A reaction to the emergence of punk in the 70s, pop punk takes the energetic thrashings of punk music and overlays the sensibilities of pop song-crafting. Pop-punk saw an explosion of popularity in the late 90s with the rise of bands such as Blink-182, Green Day and The Offspring, and arguably hit its peak in the 00s with the creation of Van’s Warped Tour, a touring music festival that featured a lineup of some of the biggest pop-punk, post-punk and metal acts of the time. Alongside its rise, it would come to incorporate elements of ska, college rock, emo and post-punk.
Another element of pop-punk that differentiates it from punk is its lyrical focus. While punk’s focus tends to be heavily political and explicitly anti-authoritarian, pop-punk trades that topical focus for poppier subjects - love, lust, drunkenness, and how much the singers truly hate this town (worth mentioning that while this is in general true, especially of more mainstream pop punk acts, there are some notable exceptions).
In discussions of subgenres of punk, pop-punk tends to be largely ignored or snidely dismissed by both pop and punk communities but I think this is unfair. Yes, its lyrical subjects are often sophomoric and steeped in teen angst. Yes, the pop focus can cause the songs to feel derivative for some punk listeners. Yes, the culture surrounding pop punk has given us moments that are unintentionally hilarious. However, there is a reason this genre gained such attention - to borrow a phrase from pop, because it slaps. It takes pop music and thrashes it around. It fills the listener with nostalgic angst with power chord after power chord. It is an ode to the immaturity of youth. It is wildly influential; you can see pop-punk’s fingerprints in tons of modern genres - emo rap, hyperpop, and even Billboard-smashing pop songs.
Pop-punk is fun and raucous and a fantastic send-up to the teenage years many of us reminisce about. Today, it gets its due. Happy rating. - u/seanderlust
If you already know the drill because you're a regular rater, feel free to get rolling with the rate. Below are links to submit, a Pastebin ballot, and playlists for both Spotify and Apple Music:
Link to send in your scores
Pastebin Ballot
Spotify Playlist │ Apple Music Playlist

The songs

  1. The Academy Is... - About a Girl
  2. Alkaline Trio - Mercy Me
  3. The All-American Rejects - Swing, Swing
  4. The All-American Rejects - Dirty Little Secret
  5. The All-American Rejects - Move Along
  6. The All-American Rejects - Gives You Hell
  7. All Time Low - Dear Maria, Count Me In
  8. All Time Low - Weightless
  9. American Hi-Fi - Flavor of the Weak
  10. blink-182 - First Date
  11. blink-182 - The Rock Show
  12. blink-182 - Stay Together For The Kids
  13. blink-182 - Feeling This
  14. blink-182 - I Miss You
  15. Bowling For Soup - 1985
  16. Boys Like Girls - The Great Escape
  17. Boys Like Girls - Love Drunk
  18. Busted - Crashed The Wedding
  19. The Cab - One of THOSE Nights
  20. Cute Is What We Aim For - The Curse of Curves
  21. Dashboard Confessional - Hands Down
  22. Every Avenue - Tell Me I'm A Wreck
  23. Fountains Of Wayne - Stacy's Mom
  24. Good Charlotte - The Anthem
  25. Good Charlotte - Lifestyles of the Rich & Famous
  26. Good Charlotte - Girls & Boys
  27. Good Charlotte - I Just Wanna Live
  28. Good Charlotte - I Don't Wanna Be In Love (Dance Floor Anthem)
  29. Hoobastank - The Reason
  30. Jimmy Eat World - The Middle
  31. Jimmy Eat World - Sweetness
  32. Jimmy Eat World - Pain
  33. Lustra - Scotty Doesn't Know
  34. Marianas Trench - Cross My Heart
  35. Mayday Parade - Jamie All Over
  36. Mayday Parade - Jersey
  37. Motion City Soundtrack - My Favorite Accident
  38. Motion City Soundtrack - The Future Freaks Me Out
  39. Motion City Soundtrack - Everything is Alright
  40. New Found Glory - My Friends Over You
  41. Plain White T's - Hate (I Really Don't Like You)
  42. Plain White T's - Our Time Now
  43. The Red Jumpsuit Apparatus - Face Down
  44. Relient K - Be My Escape
  45. Short Stack - Sway Sway Baby!
  46. Simple Plan - I'm Just a Kid
  47. Simple Plan - Perfect
  48. Simple Plan - Welcome to My Life
  49. Something Corporate - I Woke Up In A Car
  50. Sugarcult - Memory
  51. Sum 41 - Fat Lip
  52. Sum 41 - In Too Deep
  53. Taking Back Sunday - MakeDamnSure
  54. Taking Back Sunday - Cute Without The 'E' (Cut From The Team)
  55. The Used - The Taste of Ink
  56. We The Kings - Check Yes, Juliet
  57. Yellowcard - Ocean Avenue
  58. Yellowcard - Only One
  59. Yellowcard - Rough Landing, Holly
  60. +44 - When Your Heart Stops Beating

BONUS

Okay, so.
The 00s pop punk era of course coincided with the rise of a number of other genres. Seeing an opportunity for a genre overlap in the interest of gaining fans from other genres, indie punk and metal label Fearless Records put out a series of compilation albums over the 00s and 10s. These CDs contained tracks of punk bands doing covers of pop, metal, and various other genres. They referred to it under the umbrella term Punk Goes… and featured such titles as Punk Goes Metal, Punk Goes 80s, and Punk Goes Crunk.
The most popular though, and the one that garnered the most subsequent albums was Punk Goes Pop. In this series, punk bands covered various pop songs that were popular at the time in punkier stylings. Think of it as Now That’s What I Call Music, but if all the songs were sung by Mayday Parade. It was an interesting idea and gained the involved punk bands attention outside of their core fanbase. I mean come on - pop?! AND punk??!! What is this, a crossover episode?
For our bonus rate, we will be rating a sample of tracks that were recorded for the Punk Goes… series. Some of these are quite good! Some of these are certainly pieces of music that musicians decided to record! But which is the best? That is for you, dear popheads, to decide.
  1. Yellowcard - Everywhere
  2. All Time Low - Umbrella
  3. Mayday Parade - When I Grow Up
  4. The Cab - Disturbia
  5. Artist Vs Poet - Bad Romance
  6. The Ready Set - Airplanes
  7. Go Radio - Rolling In The Deep
  8. The Downtown Fiction - Super Bass
  9. Seaway - Closer
To be clear: Rating these songs is optional. You can give a score to one of them, two of them, all nine, or any number in between. You cannot use your 0 or 11 on any of them.

Rules & Instructions

PLEASE READ THESE THOROUGHLY TO AVOID HAVING TO DEAL WITH ANY PROBLEMS WITH YOUR BALLOT LATER.

  • You must listen to and score every song in the main rate. Ballots with missing scores will not be accepted.
  • Your scores must be on a scale from 1 to 10 and can include one decimal place but no more. So 7.3 is fine, but 7.31 is not.
  • You may give one song in the whole rate a score of 11 and one other a score of 0, so if you want to award these scores, save them for your favourite and least favourite songs in the rate, respectively. You must leave a comment on the songs you give an 11 or a 0, and they must be songs from the main rate, not the bonus.
  • We encourage you to leave comments of your general thoughts or reasoning behind your scores on any songs you wish. If you choose to do so however, they must be in this format, simply leaving one space after your score:
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One Of THOSE Nights: 3 They wanna be Juicy J feat. The Weeknd soooooo bad ```
Any other formats will get your ballot rejected. WRONG EXAMPLES:
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I Woke Up In A Car: Yeah but did you wake up in a new Bugatti? (8) (WRONG!)
The Curse Of Curves: 7: me getting a D+ on my trigonometry homework (WRONG!)
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  • Your ballot must be formatted exactly like the template in the message link, so make sure you use it, or the template in the backup pastebin, for your scores to be accepted.
  • Your scores are not confidential. They will be revealed, along with any comments, with your username attached.
  • DO NOT SABOTAGE the rate by giving outrageously low/high scores for the sole purpose of skewing the results, we reserve the right to exclude any ballot we suspect of this. If you're worried your scores could be mistakenly perceived as such, all you need to do is leave comments explaining the reasoning behind them.
  • If you want to change any of your scores or comments after you've already submitted your ballot, feel free to message myself or my cohost u/seanderlust before the submission deadline to sort it.

Finally, here are the links you'll need to start rating:

Submission Link

If there's a problem with it, here's the backup pastebin.

And the playlists of all the songs in the rate.

Enjoy!
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2023.06.02 15:57 cdjets9 Last Young Renegade Survivor (Round 6)

Welcome to round 6 of Last Young Renegade survivor!
The fifth song voted out of the survivor was Drugs & Candy with 23 votes (27%).
Tracks In:
Last Young Renegade
Dirty Laundry
Good Times
Life of the Party
Dark Side of Your Room
Tracks Out
  1. Ground Control (feat. Tegan and Sara) (39 Votes, 44%)
  2. Nightmares (22 Votes, 29%)
  3. Nice2KnoU (22 Votes, 27.5%)
  4. Afterglow (20 Votes, 24%)
  5. Drugs & Candy (23 Votes, 27%)
Vote here for your LEAST favorite song.
Round 7 will be posted on Sunday (6/4).
Results for the other survivors can be found here.
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2023.06.02 15:56 vomiteere Woke up from a blackout in bed having vomited in my sleep. I’ve been beckoning death for years, and now that I narrowly avoided her, I’m so happy to be alive.

I’ve been wondering what my rock bottom would be. The other day, I found it.
I don’t keep liquor in the house because I’ll drink it all. But because of some visitors, there was a 1.5L bottle in my kitchen. The first few days, I only had a couple shots here and there. But once it was nearing empty, I was determined to finish off the bottle. The prize at the bottom was disgusting.
I woke up alone, confused and horrified, vomit on my face and in my hair. Then I looked at my room, how messy it was, and realized how unglamorous my death really would have been, asphyxiating on my own throw-up surrounded by dirty clothes, orphaned cats, and yesterday’s sticky glass.
It felt like a part of me genuinely died. I felt so guilty toward my friends and family. I called them and apologized for ever putting their loved one in danger. But I also had this immense peace. Like many others here have said, I realized I never have to get blackout drunk again.
I’m never touching liquor again in my life for as long as I live. Any of my shots with friends will have to be Sprite or Coke. And if anyone tries to make me feel weird over it, I’ll tell them liquor almost killed me. Anyone who doesn’t relent at that point is just an asshole whom I don’t need to be around.
I’m just so grateful my addiction didn’t progress to destroying a relationship or someone’s life. I haven’t had any alcohol since it happened. I’ve cleaned my room and even ordered new bed sheets to signify a new start: sheets I will never soil with drunken nights.
I’m so glad I’m alive. I never thought I would ever feel it. ❤️
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2023.06.02 15:48 flippenphil (Offer) Dr. Seuss 5 film collection (Request) The Menu, Amsterdam, Babylon

MA = Movies Anywhere
GP = Googleplay
[?] = unknown definition
title = pending trade
If a title is no longer listed = It has been traded
COMBO Films
MOVIES
TV Series Marked
Vudu Only
ITUNES Only
ITUNES Only MOVIES - No Port - Marked
CANADIAN CODES: GOOGLE PLAY / ITUNES MARKED I do not know any of these port
WANT LIST
Titles I am looking for
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2023.06.02 15:46 Adventurous-coco11 Dog abuse help?

my older moved back in recently after 5 years of disappearance. I’m informed of his mental health issues such as depression. He told us due to his working environment at the hospital with constant deaths and traumatic heartbreak with ex that cheated on him led to dissociation. (Trapped himself in apartment with no social interactions) “I woke up one day and realized 5 years has past, everything felt dark”. However he decided to reach out to us after years of no contact. He brought home a dog as I assume his emotional support. The dog looked very malnourished and doesn’t seem to understand environmental cues as if it hasn’t seen the outside world. At first my family all loved the dog. My mom n I would feed and take him on walks. But one time he had diarrhea and my mom wasn’t very happy and told my brother to shower him since it is his dog. It didn’t take a great turn, he probably felt like “normal” dog maintenance was a nuisance or took his pride seriously. Ever since I haven’t heard nor seen the dog that is apparently in his room for over 2 months now. He doesn’t take the dog out to use the restroom and have any sunlight. His response to me when I asked abt the dog were “I’m punishing him” or “he’s fine just dirty since I’m stressed w work”. My mom n i are extremely worried but so scared to enter his room since he guards it. Please someone help idk what to do. It’s literally animal abuse but I don’t think he’s aware of that since it seems like he’s going through a lot.
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2023.06.02 15:46 throwawayxx1884xx Am I expecting too much?

So me and my fiancée have been trying to mend a near broken relationship for months. I feel like I have emotionally and mentally checked out at times, but I'm still wanting to try to salvage things.
So basically I feel as though she has gotten a bit lazy lately. She comes home from work and seems to do the minimum; empties the dishwasher, reloads occasionally, ciik and takes care of our 17 month old child. She works as a CNA for our Hospital's Hospice Care Division. Some days are exceptionally shorter than others. So on her long days, I don't mind and fully understand when she doesn't feel like doing anything, especially with the summer heat. I work outside in a physically demanding field, so I get it.
But am I expecting too much if, on her short days (>6 hrs), she comes home and still does a bare minimum in comparison to her 8 hour days? I know it's not a contest of who works more or who does more. But when I come home after being gone working for 10 hours to her 6, is too much to expect the dog to be taken out, living room picked or even just the laundry, that I haven't gotten to, folded?
The other thing is that she's wanting to lose some weight and get in better shape. I'm all for it. But when it comes to actually getting up in the morning and exercising, she doesn't feel like it. Absolute 0 effort to get up. Same thing goes for exercising in the evening. I'm at an absolute loss on this one. I get up 3 to 4 hours before I got to be at work in order to make sure that any chores I didn't get around to doing (because when I get up to clean up after dinner she'll beg for attention, even though I make her and our son my main focus after I get home) and get my workout in. I've been doing it this way for years (off and on). So am I missing something here? I don't remember how or why I decided to get up early to get my workout in, I just always have. So if anyone has advice, I'd much appreciate it.
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2023.06.02 15:44 BlondeEvie I left him and my anxiety went away - toxic FWB

I recently had a FWB. He was awful. He treated me like a puppet. He played with me and threw me away whenever he wanted. I have to admit that I let myself be in that position too. I liked the time we spent together and sometimes thought it would eventually evolve into something more serious. But it never did. I was completley delusional.
Many friends told me to stop after our first encounter because he seemed rude and he started to ignore me after he had told me how great everything went. They told me that I was hurting me and I didn't listen. After a while I texted back and he answered and we met again. It went like that for a few more times. And eventually I got used to the manipulation.
During this whole time my anxiety was so high up I couldn't control it. But it was another kind of anxiety to the one I had previously experienced. I was constantly aware and thinking about this guy that mistreated me. I kept imagining the worst case scenarios in which I was to blame. It made feel like shit. I was so down and completely obssessed about it. I kept blaming myself for not being pretty enough, for not being mature enough, for not being old enough or even tall enough. For not having the job he may have (because I didn't know) wanted me to have in order to go out with me. I was so harsh on myself. It was all because he didn't respect me. He ghosted me and used me as his sexual object. He was rude and nasty on the phone and then face to face an angel. Which made me think it was all me, and that he was an awesome person and that i should stay with him because he isn't that bad after all. LIES.
My subconcious wanted me to stay and did everything for me to stay. I even let him do dirty stuff on me which I didn't like in order to please him. When he ignored me and wouldn't care about me because he wasn't feeling horny enough or didn't want sex my anxiety was so up that my body would completely shut down. I was depressed and I would oversleep so that I didn't have to think about it. That's when I kept thinkning about what was wrong with me. That I must have a problem if he didn't want me. Instead of forgetting about him I thought, "maybe next time he will answer, let's just wait a few more days". Waited and nothing. Was he hiding something? a relationship maybe? probably, who knows. But it made me feel worthless to think that. Whenever he texted I would be there, although not immediately but I was. He knew I would be there.
The age gap was big, 13 years. Maybe he thought that because he was older I would do whatever and be controlled? I definetely did.
My friends sat me down yesterday, and told me to forget him. It was killing me inside and hurting my soul. I deserved better and not a player and f*ckboy like him. This time I listened because I knew I could no longer live like that. I deleted him everywhere. I thought I'd be depressed, but i felt FREE AF. It felt so awesome, so so good. I felt like I recovered my so long lost power and selfworth. I was no longer attached to a manipulative man. It felt like I had been in a toxic reltionship for years and I just let go and felt liberated. Like in the movies. Running with my hands wide open through fields full of flowers. My anxiety left me body for real. I didn't feel nervous about what he was gonna do or say next because he no longer could, he no longer was able to talk to me.
Please, if you are in a toxic relationship seek help. You really need it. Respect yourself, put yourself first. You are worth more than anything.
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2023.06.02 15:42 Vloxalion [USA-PA] [H] 12400 based complete pc w/peripherals & accessories & spares [W] Local Cash

"Bump" of previous post last week. All have been unused/untouched since March 1st, just sitting there or in boxes, except the monitor.
$650 for everything (list 1 and list 2). Not parting out due to payment method precluding shipping.
TL;DR quick overview of all parts
one i5-12400 w/stock cooler, 1 downdraft cooler, 3 120mm tower coolers
two B660m ddr4 motherboards, one win10pro key, and one anti-bending lga 1700 bracket
two kits 3200c16 ddr4, one 2x8gb singlerank other 2x16gb dualrank
one RX460 4gb gpu
two nvme m.2 drives; 500gb sn770, 2tb 970 evo plus
two cases, one matx nr200 clone, other atx lancool 216 and 5pack of arctic p12 pwm fans
two psu, one sfx 600w platinum (w/ 1 cable extension), other atx (300)w F-tier
one 24'' 1920x1200 60hz monitor with a desk clamp arm
cheap mouse and keyboard(keyboard w/RGB!!!....sry)
one set entry level professional speakers and an old sound card
webcam, xbox360 controller, microphone
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Local cash only, no paypal(don't have one), quakertown-doylestown area in bucks county.
Timestamps
pet/[email protected]/[email protected]/scent free household, and do not eat near computer area. The second hand items from the 12400 guy exude much less fragrance compared to when they were obtained (assuming his household laundry detergent or similar had fragrance as the source), and I doubt you'd sense it if your own living arrangements have any sort of scented items. They come with all original cables, boxes, manuals, etc I still have. If you want more information about anything, feel free to ask and it will be added. Selling because old 2010 pc with phenom ii x3, gtx460, and 8gb is sufficient for my use case, try for modern hardware again some other time.
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Part Name Detailed Comments/Condiiton Currently/Personally Valued at x 1 month ago
CPU
i5-12400 2nd hand. H0 stepping, not the more power hungry C0 (C0 is a partially disabled 8core die), and is AVX-512 capable going by the production date(did not verify; see motherboard notes). small blemish/ding(?) from previous owner's cooler on ihs, but can't tell if it was permanent indent or rubbed off hard bit of dried paste. includes box and cooler. 140/140
Coolers
unknown 6 heatpipe thermalright cooler - possibly the burst assassin non-argb model without fan 2nd hand from the 12400 guy. tower only. has blemish/nick on contact surface. his laundry detergent had fragrance, so i couldn't use it. he also didn't clean the paste off and shipped it in a ziplock bag. i cleaned it as well as i could and replaced the bag. 15?/10
noctua s12b redux 1200rpm 2nd hand from the 12400 guy. same scent problem. can't remember testing it. 10?/5
arctic alpine 17 co BNIB, but box looks beat up 13/8
id cooling se-224-xt-basic used to cool a 3800X for a few months before the faulty mobo went kaput and sold the other parts of it. no 1700 mounting hardware because it was produced before alder lake. the win10pro key from the msi pro mobo is written on a slip of paper tucked inside the instruction manual. 25?/15
Thermalright Assassin X 120 refined SE mounted 90 degrees clockwise for bottom-to-top airflow in sama case 20/15
Motherboards
msi b660m mortar wifi ddr4 mobo vrms have coil whine crackle-hum using turbo boost, most likely related to powerstate/frequency switching (disappears when fully loaded or not doing anything) or concurrent with putting load on the integrated graphics, tried a whole bunch of bios settings to stop it, C1E enabled reduces it. integrated graphics culprit unverified due to case and difficulty with it; haven't tested a discrete card to eliminate igpu cause. latest bios(v19) at the time is flashed, need earlier bios version for avx512 capability, tried to get that instruction set working but found out it involves tainting my kernel and i don't use windows but if you do, the only os-side step is to move the specific intel microcode file out of system32. replaced the ilm with the thermalright one. includes right angle usb3 header adapter. 100/100
msi b660m a pro ddr4 wifi 2nd hand from 12400 guy. has smudge on backside near cpu bracket from alcohol solubility test on the paint; backside is alcohol soluble. has same scent as others from him. he did a bad paste job on cpu area and shipped it that way, i cleaned it up (no socket pins got paste on them thankfully because he didn't remove cpu from the board) tested and it works. comes with windows 10 pro key. the m.2 wifi card was worked, but putting it back in this board... i didn't have enough finger dexterity. one of the contact n!pp!es is bent, needs to be bent back. can't get it back out to do that, stuck. includes piece of factory glue that goes between the contacts and holds the leads in place. treat as non wifi version with potential bonus for trying hard enough. anti static bag on one side MAY have trace of urushiol due to being blown away when airing out onto a patch of cracked concrete where two weeks previously had been a sprout which had been disposed of then the area alcohol-doused then two rainstorms. includes right angle usb3 header adapter. 80/70
thermalright 1700 anti-bending ilm silver comes with thermal paste(used once) and original ilm of the mortar mobo 9/8
RAM
teamgroup 2x8gb 3200 c16 2nd hand from 12400 guy, works, had somehow strongest scent of them all. 32//25
timetec 2x16gb 3200 c16 dual rank with hynix 8gigabit jjr ic's (lower binned cjr) remember to lock in the voltage to safe level for that ic instead of auto. partially manually overclocked, enabled xmp then increase to gear1 3466mt/s (what i can tell, max speed with the locked vcssa without loosening timings) and the few timings changed are: command rate to real 1N; did not test tighter than tRRD to 6, tRRD_L to 6, and tFAW to 24; tREFI should be able to be higher than 24960 but didn't test; tRFC has errors at 460, can't remember what 480's result was, and 500 is stable. stressapptest for an hour after each change made, no errors. may go tighter, less than 10 attempts worth of tweaking. 70/65
Storage
western digital sn770 500gb 2nd hand from the 12400 guy, but didn't notice scent(was under heatsink). has been secure erased. smart data said 2.4tbw. 30/25
samsung 970 evo plus 2tb 2nd hand from best buy geek squad refurbished. smart data indicated literal open box condition. has been secure erased. smart data says 3.28tbw. 98/80
GPU
xfx rx460 4gb 2nd hand from a miner in 2021. was dirty but cleaned it, had mining bios, and the standard bios or other custom bios don't seem stable, but it works with a rx560 bios i modded to rx550 clocks. thought i saw something spherically, iridescently marbled green-yellowgreen falling from it when putting it back together after cleaning but couldn't find the drop or where it may have dropped from, capacitors look ok. single fan version. has annoying blue led. requires 6-pin pcie power even though it draws less than 75w. 45/35
Cases
sama im01 hohboy, man oh man, this case.... removing the front panel carefully according to the manual causes the top clips to break(so that's why it includes two spares), and is difficult to work in even though all sides but the back come off. can't put a discrete gpu in because it can't go into the slot all the way; something about the mobo tray being depressed or pci slot design prevents it. front left usb3.0 defective (blips then doesn't work) but the right one is functional. pci slot magnetic swinging screw cover hinge is a bit bent because the top and bottom packaging foam were switched in factory(foam cutouts did not align). matx mobo prevents bottom from having second fan if not want to risk mobo header bending. 60/30
lian li lancool 216 black non-rgb model opened the box and took out the inner accessory box on top but put it right back because became busy and never got around to using it. did not take out the case. almost literally open box. do not know state of tempered glass but jiggling box does not make broken glass sound. 100/90
arctic p12 pwm pst 5 pack 2 used in the sama im01, 3 unused 30/25
PSU
corsair sf600 platinum 3 months use. powered the 12400 using integrated graphics, don't think total system power exceeded 150w from the wall. 110/110
thermaltake tr2 430np don't know if it was 2nd hand or not. used to power a windows xp office machine which was bought without one. Don't use more than 350 watts; here is a review of the unit showing why- https://www.hardwaresecrets.com/thermaltake-purepower-430w-np-power-supply-review/ its F-tier but would personally trust it in a system pulling less than 100 or so from the wall. one cable with 20+4-pin motherboard connectors one cable with 6-pin pcie connector one cable with 4-pin 12v connector one cable with 3 molex connectors two cables with 3 molex and 1 floppy connector one cable with 2 sata connectors one molex-to-sata converter 20/5
cablemod black modflex EPS 4+4 pin 45cm extension sf600 needs the extension to reach the mobo receptacle in the sama case 9/9
Peripherals/Accessories
hp zr24w + ergodepot J2 monitor arm 60hz, 1920x1200, 24inch. 12 years use. ccfl backlight has been on for ~3.3 years. came with a scratch not noticeable when on most of the time. has smudges from over a decade of use, not trusting myself to clean it without scratching. includes J2 monitor arm (desk clamp), but makes it skew a little. when powered on, it knocks channel 6 out of the airwaves until it is turned off. flickers below 100% brightness. 50+40?(90?)/50+20(70)
tecknet um013 mouse awful scroll wheel. defaults to the lower of the two dpi settings every time it loses power; does not save setting. 2 months use. 6/3
redragon karura k502 rgb keyboard 2nd hand. works, but did not verify all keys. 20/8
presonus eris E3.5 studio monitors were on my desk for 10 days and powered on at low volume for under an hour, may be low amount of specks of dust, and the speaker wire had been connected, but otherwise is as if you opened up a new one. didn't like the space they took up and preferred my headphones, but B&H would not take these back because i told them i used the included speaker wire. no joke. 90/80
samson go mic 2nd hand. works, good shape. usb condenser with omni/-10/cardioid switch and 3.5mm jack. has sticker covering the led to diminish the brightness. 25/15
xbox 360 wired controller didn't use it often, but owned it for a really long time. the left thumbstick has worn down, is low tension, and can drift slightly if off center to the northwest. 10/4
asus xonar dx 2nd hand. used for a few months in 2011 but was too close to gpu intake so put it away. 30/18
logitech c600 webcam model V-U0007 12/5
Summary first number taken from recent reasonable hardwareswap/ebay sales and amazon(when first two no/little results) and second number what i'd pay for the item in question if I was someone else, based on what is known of the condition. Paid 1300+ for just the parts bought in the last year, so imo this is a super deal if you are in the area. Total: 1299/1073
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2023.06.02 15:31 __mango___ Rotating interships

Hello everyone!
I am looking for advice in regard to a rotating surgical internship i started a month ago.
I was really excited when i got accepted for this position and couldn't wait to start. My goal is to specialise in neuro.
However upon starting work i found out (they do not give this information during the interview even when asked) that i have a seven day shift lasting twelve and a half hours which in reality ends up being a thirteen hour and a half shift minimum. Usually 14 hours.
We are only allowed to take holiday during a specific week.
During one of the rotations where we work four days on a specific discipline the specialist actually has two of those days off. Meaning that you only work with the specialist for two days and the other two days you just do whatever is needed for the clininc if there is anything needed.
We do alot of paper work. Studying or learning is mostly tailored for the residents. As interns we re just expected to sort of read whatever we think is relevant.
We also do night shifts seven days lasting for 13/14hrs some days.
We have some days also that we can help with surgeries but again if there are sufficient residents working those days then interns don't do much in regard to surgery assistance. They will help out wherever needed around the clinic and if they are needed.
They have also added anesthseisa shifts to our rota because they are short on anesthesia interns.
I understand that I need to be more patient and give the internship time as one month is not enough to gain a clear picture.
But this past month i have not enjoyed it at all. I am completely exhausted and feel like a spare part rather a part of the team. This is a feeling amongst other interns too. And they also agree that they are not truthfull during the interviews. A new intern is also starting and he also was not informed in regard to holidays and shifts.
I am also living in shared accomodation and the peole i live with do not clean and leave food,dirty tables,laundry,dirty bathrooms etc they don't care at all about the house and i am tried of having to clean it. This is also affecting me. I have had multiple crying sessions this past month due to tiredness and disappointment.
I am thinking to change my internship to another clinic which i am not sure if this is possible. And secondly i am thinking of quitting if it is going to continue to be like this.
I am sorry for the long post. I would like to ask if someone has any advice for how get through this since i have a year left and if anyone has changed clinics for their interships or is it something i should avoid and just stick it though this one?
Thank you very much in advance.
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2023.06.02 15:25 ghastlybagel New homeowner. Had our tub refinished and worried I overpaid to make my tub unusable to me. Info/advice appreciated.

This sub had provided me a lot of help as a new homeowner lurking about, and I’ve finally got a question of my own.
When I bought my older house the porcelain tub had a lot of chipped paint that was kind of sharp and got dirty easily, as well as these old flower shaped things glued on to keep from slipping that I barely managed to get off the other day. Finally got around to being able to fix it, but I was having a hard time connecting with companies because of my current work schedule to get info. I got a couple estimates to have it repainted and reglazed that I think were under $400 for all the services. Being extremely busy I trusted my dad with the task (and my credit card) and gave him some info. We found a guy and I thought we understood prices and it was good. But, I was definitely absent in the process and trusting my dad.
Today the guy finished reglazing the tub with a “plastic polyurethane coat” (his words), advised us that we could ONLY use Simple Green cleaning products from now on and that anything else would invalidate the warranty and that we also could no longer use our bath mat or shower stool (I am disabled and do require these as I am a slip and fall risk) because they would rip the tub apart and also invalidate the warranty. He then informed me that the cost was $1000. He refused to tell me any other information about what was used and can’t find it online to understand why I can’t use any other cleaning products or my safety tools. I confirmed that my dad had told him during the consultation that we use these safety tools and due to allergies are only using certain cleaning products. Tub guy insisted that this is the best and most long lasting option.
I’m really kicking myself for trusting my dad to do research (he only called one company that was top rated on google reviews with… three reviews) and to stick to a price range.
Can anyone tell me, with the vague info I have, if this information on the tub coating is accurate? Am I this limited in cleaning products and no longer able to use a bath mat? Should I just say “screw your warranty” and do it anyway?
I can provide the company’s name but their website doesn’t tell me what they use to coat the tub or any details I saw as useful.
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2023.06.02 15:24 Haunting_Badger7752 Andaman beaches - super confused!

Hi All!
Coming to Thailand for 3 weeks in Dec/Jan, part of the trip will be spent in BKK, Khao Sok and CM and then I have 10 days of beach time to plot in.
To keep the number of destinations to a minimum I planned to have this time in Phuket specifically Patong at the Four Points in the northern part of the beach as I enjoy somewhere with a good choice of restaurants and has some nightlife (doesn't need to be crazy, some bars is fine)
In the past week 3 separate people have told me Patong beach is super dirty and not nice. I'm not very confused - initially I ruled out Krabi because Railay is stunning but the only higher end hotel (Rayavadee) is way too expensive, Ao Lang I heard beach isn't nice either and food options bad? And then I considered Khao Lak but heard it is more for families/older people so can be boring?
What do you all suggest for 10 days beach? Is north Patong beach that dirty/can I take taxis to some nice beaches?
I could also be open to splitting my time between Patong and Khao Lak - then I would not stay in Khao Sok just do day trip
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2023.06.02 15:15 throw-it-away82649 Being the parent home with the baby

I’ve been arguing recently with my partner about life at home with the baby vs him going out to work (England for reference).
I can’t tell if I am in the right or wrong about it. He is working 50+ hours per week in a semi-manual job (not sitting down all day but also not using much physical strength). He gets a 15 minute break every few hours and a good lunch break.
I am home with the baby and have the usual chores to do, laundry, cooking, cleaning, and generally ensuring that all members of the house have what they need for the next day.
I keep trying to get jobs done but as I get interrupted frequently (4.5 month old baby) I seem to run out of time easily and can end up doing a task which I didn’t even intend to start with just to feel I have accomplished something.
My partner has said that I am too much with the baby and should let them cry, also that I make too much of a deal about breastfeeding (making sounds when it’s uncomfortable, letting the baby feed until they unlatch themselves).
We don’t have any support around us hence the long hours my partner is working. What do others do in this situation?
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2023.06.02 15:08 Swanny3690 Favorite Seat Covers and Upholstery Cleaner?

Hey folks,
Bought my '19 SR V6 4x4 about a month ago with 23k miles. The exterior and engine are immaculate and the interior is... Luckily undamaged but somehow looks like it's been driven 100k miles in an incredibly dusty and muddy area. Every nook and cranny seems to be caked in dust or mud. On top of that, the previous owner had a dog and the upholstery smells, looks, and feels like he was sopping wet and dirty 99% of the time.
The dealer I bought it from did a surface level detailing that handled a lot of the easy to reach dust and mud as well as claiming they detailed the upholstery twice before sending it home with me. It definitely smells better than when I test drove it but it still has a slightly off smell to it and the seats still felt grimy with caked in gunk - I'm guessing the dealership just did some kind of chemical spray treatment to reduce odors but didn't actually shampoo or deep clean the upholstery.
That all being said, I don't mind a dirty exterior but I don't want to sit in a funky smelling truck all the time. I have dogs myself and am hoping to get the interior detailed and smell free and then throw some seat covers on to provide additional wear, dirt, dog hair, and smell protection.
I bought some Chemical Guys Nonsense Colorless & Odorless All Surface Super Cleaner and did a first pass with a brush. The towels I used to dab dry and extract the cleaner came back looking gross from all the dirt I pulled up and the interior smelled a lot better, however, a day later it went back to smelling funky. I will say, the seats don't feel nearly as grimy so it definitely helped extract a lot of dirt.
Any seat cover recommendations or heavy duty upholstery cleaner recommendations that handle odors especially well?
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TL;DR - I bought a stinky Tacoma, what are your recommended cleaners to handle stubborn odors and what seat covers do you recommend?
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2023.06.02 15:01 YourRideArrived I feel at times sick

Quit gaming officially and I’ve been so motivated in life. I use a diary and map out my days. I used to play 10 hours whole day. Today I’ve done laundry, washing pots, fixed a very nice lunch and did some gardening. Then I’m going for a walk and reading a book / watching a podcast. But when I’m just sat down and thinking about life I feel physically sick, I just feel weird. I’m not sure how to explain it.
Gaming took my life away and I feel like I’m now trapped animal being released into the world. Even when I speak to people I’m not distracted, I listen to what they say and pick up on subtle jokes and I laugh so hard.
Sorry for this strange rant, I just feel weird but at the same time so happy and motivated to fix my life!
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2023.06.02 15:00 xfallenangelx95 27/F seeking an emotional bond with emotionally mature and like minded people from Europe.I would love to meet someone talkative!Someone who wants to talk on a daily basis.It isn't easy to find a friend on reddit but I'm trying my best.I'm interested only in long term frienships.

Only Europe Please - short note - If you're not into reading or receiving long messages,don't read any further + Please If you don't want to read everything because of my post being too long for you & instead of reading It all - ..skip some parts - find another person to talk to.Let's respect each other and our free time. All people criticizing/making fun of me & other people - will permanently be blocked.Pretty much as people questioning my post and giving me unsolicited advice.I'm not here for any conflicts and I know I can't please everyone - I know I never will.. However It's me who should feel comfortable in my new potential friendship & obviously someone interested in being my friend - not the whole world which is why I don't need any advice from people who don't even want to be a part of my life. The amount of rude people on Reddit always criticizing others and making fun of them is unbelievably high but let me tell you something - NEVER let anyone make choices for you and criticize you only because you're different! Always fight for your dreams and never let anyone make you think you're worthless! It's your life and you're the one deciding what's best for you - If you want to judge me despite not even wanting to talk to me or give me avice better block me
Hello guys! 🙂 (read everything before you decide to send me a message) Please send me a message ONLY If you're in the same situation and If your expectations are the same as mine.I want to find like minded people from Europe (Why Europe? Read my post to find out) I'm looking for something permanent (remember - you can feel lonely even If you're surrounded by others - If there's no emotional bond) I'm fed up of meeting people who never make any time for me & only text me once or twice a week to ask me "what are you up to?" Out of boredom.I don't want to meet people asking others a million of questions like "what's your favorite movie?" Just to give you one word answer and ask you another question "and music? Your favorite song?" I'm looking for something "deeper" & different🙂What kind of friend would I like to find? Someone to talk to on a daily basis - Someone who needs It & wants It just as much as me
Do you ever feel like an option? Like a stranger to others despite knowing them for months or years & talking to them quite often? Like there's always something and someone more important than you and you just..don't fit in and no matter what you do - your effort is never appreciated?
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What are my expectations? I would like to meet someone in a similar situation – why? Because I honestly feel like only a person with the same expectations and a similar outlook on life would get along with me & because I feel more comfortable talking to people like me..Friendless people who need a strong bond - people without friends and without partners..Don't get me wrong…Most people deserve to be happy and It's good to have friends but people who have friends or families in real life are usually more focused on them ( which is completely understandable) & have less time for others + I simply don't want to be replaced by anyone..I kind of envy people who can call others , true friends given I don't have an emotional bond with any of my acquaintances. Whenever I hear that others have friends I simply get sad because (believe it or not) If I had to choose between 20 people to talk to (Acquaintances) and one special person - I'd choose that one special person without any hesitation .
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I also want to talk to others on a daily basis mainly because..I want to see someone’s effort & be someone's first choice - not another person to have random conversations with..Why I'd rather talk to people from my continent? Well..Mainly because I would like to see someone I'd get along with - In the far future - face to face :) + I don't want to wait any longer than 6 hours to receive a message - Especially given most people are always available on social media sites & keep their phones in a pocket.Once you receive & open my message - get back to me (If you're as serious as I am & really need a true friend) waiting 6 hours to receive a message is more than enough
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I'm by no means criticising people who don't want to talk to others often / People who really are super busy & People who want to find someone to have non important conversations with - I'm aware that not everyone has the same expectations which is why everything you're reading now - is here for a reason.All I'm suggesting is - I don't want anything temporary and I don't want to be the one always giving more than receiving.Listen people - I used to ignore being..ignored by others..always being just an option to talk to during tough times or moments of boredom.I was too young to realize that I was never important enough for most people that were a part of my life I don't know who needs to hear this but..No one is too busy to make time for you! People make excuses to avoid others because they prioritize everything and (maybe) everyone..over them. It's true that most people really are busy - but It takes only a few seconds to start a conversation (If you're into short messages) and a few minutes (1-10/15) to type a long message Don't let anyone lie to you.
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Truth is that most people either don't like you enough to make time for you or just simply - feel no need to talk to others often but are they too busy? No..You don't need to send me a message just to ask me and tell me "Do you really want to talk daily? I like long messages but I can't promise to contact you often" If you really are unsure please don't send me a message.I don't need more acquaintances aka people to talk to - occasionallyI'm not trying to sound rude - I just don't want to meet new people and get emotionally attached - only to end up being left alone after weeks or months of daily conversations.I'm sick of that never ending story and always meeting people who ghost me without a single word (even if everything seems to be ok) or people who "change priorities" over time & become like strangers…I don't want to go through this ever again.Let me tell you one thing – A true friend would never just give up on you for no reason :)It’s always possible to find someone to have a random conversation with – someone willing to send you one message once or twice a week..but..It’s almost impossible to find people willing to make time for you.
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I’m not asking a busy person to make time for me by changing some plans! Absolutely not! I’m here to find someone who wants to talk daily (throughout the day or maybe even night) of one’s own will.Someone looking for the same kind of connection.Strong friendships are based on mutual support. One of the best things you can do for a friend in need, is just to be there for them when they want to talk.I often see posts from people who always say how friendless they are because they don't feel loved or appreciated by their "friends" remember! A true friend - someone who truly likes you or someone who wants to get to know you - will always find time for you. 🙂
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I'm not really interested in small talk/short messages - I love long and meaningful conversations. It's so easy to find someone who loves abbreviations and questions like "How are you?" How was your day? Or what are you interested in? But so hard/almost impossible to find a person who knows how to keep a conversation going & show others some effort.Building and maintaining friendships takes time and effort.Never allow pursuits or possessions to become bigger priorities than your relations with other people.Close friendships are so important to us because they are so difficult to form + Having friends can help you feel as if you belong to something that brings purpose and connection to your life
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• I do NOT respond to any „Hey,hmu” or „u want to talk” type of messages (super short messages or messages full of abbreviations – I literally can’t stand abbreviations and acronyms in text messages) ALL messages full of abbreviations will immediately be ignored.I also don't like it when people ignore everything I say in private messages just to focus on some question or? Start talking only about themselves.. I love conversations with people refering to every part of my messages - not just some question.
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• No dirty messages PLEASE.I'm not looking for anyone to flirt with and I'm not looking for a partner either. No NSWF profiles..I always check people's profiles (Even comment history) - To avoid guys,trying to get inappropriate photos from adult women or? flirt with them & If your comment history is full of rude comments - you and I wouldn't get along! I can't stand people who judge other people and use vulgar words to describe them or? Make fun of them.Respect is very important
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• If both (you and I) are from the same country (I live in a non-English speaking country ) - I want to communicate with you in our first language! No - Not because I don't understand English because as you see - I do. Why then? English is simply overrated and people don't appreciate other languages as much as they should. So.. If we're from the same country and you want to talk only in English (which is quite common on reddit) - Talk to someone else. I just simply don't want to talk to a person from the same country - in a foreign language as It's just something I don't understand even If all you want is to practice your english
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• Please only adult people 18-36 age range (I'm 27)
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• I don’t respond to messages I don’t find interesting even If they're long - If after receiving and reading your message I don't feel comfortable or think "I wouldn't get along with him/her" I simply do not respond (what I’m suggesting is that I don’t always respond to someone’s first or second message because..sometimes you just know If you’d get along with someone or not- I’d never ignore anyone after days or weeks of daily conversations though) just because I don’t want to do anything forcefully & because I don’t want to lead anyone on. I read all messages but I definitely don't respond to all of them! I want to make it clear because I don't want to be accused of not responding and not reading people's messages! - Some people don't message me back as well and even though It is a bit disappointing I'm ok with that! - as long as there's no emotional bond - I think it's ok to not respond to someone's first or second message If people think they wouldn't get along! I can't stand being ignored after days or weeks of daily conversation and seeing people changing priorities but that's something different - something I don't want to go through ever again for real If I'm really interested in someone's message - I respond within a matter of minutes - max 6 hours (If I'm in bed - just sleeping) you won't even hear from me "I'm too busy" because I know myself and If I really was too busy to make time for others - I wouldn't be here. I either want to talk to someone..or not.I don't want to pretend someone I'm not and always try to find some cheap excuses to avoid others. (unlike some people)
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• Don’t ask me “Can you tell me something about yourself?” If you really want to get to know me - you can ask me questions :) I'm an open book.
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• It would be better If you guys were into emojis - just like me - just to describe your emotions through text. Two emojis - 🙂 and 🙁 are completely enough I just don't like emotionless messages.I also don't like it when people say "yeah" or yea"as it sounds dismissively.
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• I want to talk on reddit first (just to make sure If I'd get along with you ) before moving to Discord or some other app
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• Time response matters to me a lot! It matters to me whether I get a message back after one hour,three hours,6 hours or..12 hours and even..after a couple of days..And If you're another person just looking for one day conversation and then? "Disappear" for some amount of time longer than one day to come back and apologize me for being busy - don't even leave me a message.I just want to be honest with you from the start.I'm interested only in daily conversations
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Why can’t you see any of my interests listed down below? Because what really matters to me is..who you are (If you’re honest,talkative,understanding,caring and trustworthy – for example) just simply – It matters to me what you’re like! not what you like.Don’t get me wrong – you can tell me what your hobbies are but in my personal opinion,common interests are important mainly when you want to find a gaming buddy (for example) or If you want to meet someone to hang out with in real life and..go bowling for example.What most people seem to care about are other people's interests – I don’t. I get along with other people despite having completely different hobbies but I absolutely don’t get along with people way different than me (different expectations and outlook on life– way different sense of humor or personality traits – It’s just an example) It doesn't make ANY DIFFERENCE to me If you're a gamer or? Someone interested in photography! It doesn't make any difference - > as long as you're talkative and kind and If you also want to find someone willing to stay in your life..for good - But If you're into small talk and all you want is to...type and receive super short messages or If you're here only because you're bored and don't know what to do + If you're a very sarcastic person - I'm definitely not for you!I don't get along with overly sarcastic people turning everything into a joke. Friendships should be natural – not forced.
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Both people wanting to be friends should feel comfortable and have something in common. No - not necessarily a similar taste in music or movies but something else..Most friendships don't fizzle out because of people not having the same hobbies but..because they just simply have different expectations when It comes to something important.I'm not here out of boredom and trust me - I'm not here to meet as many people as possible.I choose quality over quantity.I higly value myself and my time & Sometimes one person but a person who makes you feel comfortable and understood - is more than enough :) We ALL can choose what kind of people we’d like to talk to and maybe even become really good friends with and I? I don’t want anyone to be disappointed.We all have some expectations after all.I know that people don't have to talk everyday to be friends but I'm interested only in daily conversations with someone also interested in talking dailyIf you really need someone to talk to due to loneliness and If you have time to talk to me daily (throughout the day and maybe even night)I always make time for others.I'm literally always available.I could even stay up all night long only to talk to someone. I’m ready to commit but only If there’s some chemistry between me and someone else.I don’t do anything forcefully.
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If you want to talk to me tell me your story - tell me why you're here, what kind of friend would you like to meet :) Et cetera.Such messages are way more interesting to me than...someone's long list of hobbies. I know! It's unusual on reddit but I don't make friends based on hobbies..I want to meet someone with the same mindset as mine to finally feel understood and get close to someone new.You can share your problems with me - I absolutely don't mind "complaining" as I've been through a lot in my life.What do people usually tell you when you tell them that's something's wrong? "Don't complain" or "Life's not over yet - one day you'll be happy" or "There are worse situations than yours" and..obviously "Find a therapist" Life's not a fairytale and sometimes things don't go as planned.Emotions shouldn't be bottled up.I'm sick of people always telling others "everything's gonna be ok" move on " & more..Trust me people - not everyone wants to hear "Just believe in yourself and everything's gonna be ok" Some people take it as reassurance. But others see it as false hope. Imagine being told that things will be okay, only for them to get worse..Do you guys know why telling someone "everything's gonna be ok" Is wrong? Because you can't see the future.
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You can't guarantee others that one day they'll finally be happy + when It comes to social interactions - We're only responsible for ourselves - not for others & as you guys know people let us down quite often (sometimes even when there's no reason) so instead of telling people how they should move on,forget everything and be happy or asking them to find a therapist - be there for them! Always be willing to listen to them If you really like them or want to get to know them & don't suggest everyone in a tough situation to find a therapist because a therapist won't ever replace a true friend + It's quite normal to be disappointed If people always do something to hurt you.Sharing your hardships with other people in a very similar situation or exactly the same one - is VERY helpful If the other person understands you & wants to start all over by just letting it all out & feeling emotional support instead of always hearing some "positive quotes" or someone saying "Stop complaining let's talk about something else"Everyone needs a shoulder to cry on. I appreciate sensitive people who always try to understand others.Empathy is everything
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Our world needs more peace 🤗 I've seen a lot of rude comments on reddit.If you don't agree with me - OK but please don't criticize me + Not everyone is here to ask for advice.Listen people - I know how different my post is & I know It won't be easy for me to find what or rather who - I'm looking for BUT I always want to be myself instead of pretending someone I'm not and lying to others.I know It would be easier if (like others) I had less expectations but I I know what I want and honestly? If my post was different..I wouldn't be me.Even If I won't meet a person I'd get along with - that's ok! but don't give me any unsolicited advice because I wouldn't change for someone who doesn't even know me pretty much as I wouldn't want to change anyone else.I'm not trying to "fit in" and be like everyone else - just to get more attention.Accept me for who I am or let go - is my motto.I'm not here to argue with anyone and to make fun of others.
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Please - If you're a completely different person than the described type of person I'm looking for (If you love abrreviations,If you don't need an emotional connection,If you're sarcastic and quiet) or If you simply disagree with my post - don't force yourself to send me a message.I want my new potential friendship,to be natural which is why I want you to contact me If your needs are the same - I don't want you to try to change yourself only to please me - Pretending to be someone you're not - is the worst.I know It's possible to find what I'm looking for as I had conversations with people looking for exactly the same thing and being nice to me - I want to believe in my luck again as I had it a few times on reddit - I've recently lost someone I thought could be a friend of mine (such a perfect match) and I'm sad but I want to finally be happy again & find someone always wanting to talk - sending me random pictures throughout the day - food pictures or pictures of some animals and what is the most important to me? To find people who value online friendships as much as they would value real life ones as there's another human being on the other side
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No comments please.Only Private messages and chat requests.I don't really like public conversations and I also do not respond to comments so If you want to send me a message just do it without saying "You can DM me" + I'm online almost all the time and yes - I am very selective but If I had to choose between having another (new) acquaintance and being in the same situation as I currently am - I'd always choose second option.I don't need more people to talk to every now and then and any chit chat so please think twice before you decide to send me a message
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2023.06.02 14:59 xfallenangelx95 27/F Looking for someone in exactly the same situation as mine - Someone friendless,talkative and kind! Kindness is highly appreciated by me! I'm interested only in daily conversations and long term friendships! Let everyone on Reddit be happy! Let them find their happiness :) Never give up!

Only Europe Please - short note - If you're not into reading or receiving long messages,don't read any further + Please If you don't want to read everything because of my post being too long for you & instead of reading It all - ..skip some parts - find another person to talk to.Let's respect each other and our free time. All people criticizing/making fun of me & other people - will permanently be blocked.Pretty much as people questioning my post and giving me unsolicited advice.I'm not here for any conflicts and I know I can't please everyone - I know I never will.. However It's me who should feel comfortable in my new potential friendship & obviously someone interested in being my friend - not the whole world which is why I don't need any advice from people who don't even want to be a part of my life. The amount of rude people on Reddit always criticizing others and making fun of them is unbelievably high but let me tell you something - NEVER let anyone make choices for you and criticize you only because you're different! Always fight for your dreams and never let anyone make you think you're worthless! It's your life and you're the one deciding what's best for you - If you want to judge me despite not even wanting to talk to me or give me avice better block me
Hello guys! 🙂 (read everything before you decide to send me a message) Please send me a message ONLY If you're in the same situation and If your expectations are the same as mine.I want to find like minded people from Europe (Why Europe? Read my post to find out) I'm looking for something permanent (remember - you can feel lonely even If you're surrounded by others - If there's no emotional bond) I'm fed up of meeting people who never make any time for me & only text me once or twice a week to ask me "what are you up to?" Out of boredom.I don't want to meet people asking others a million of questions like "what's your favorite movie?" Just to give you one word answer and ask you another question "and music? Your favorite song?" I'm looking for something "deeper" & different🙂What kind of friend would I like to find? Someone to talk to on a daily basis - Someone who needs It & wants It just as much as me Do you ever feel like an option? Like a stranger to others despite knowing them for months or years & talking to them quite often? Like there's always something and someone more important than you and you just..don't fit in and no matter what you do - your effort is never appreciated? What are my expectations? I would like to meet someone in a similar situation – why? Because I honestly feel like only a person with the same expectations and a similar outlook on life would get along with me & because I feel more comfortable talking to people like me..Friendless people who need a strong bond - people without friends and without partners..Don't get me wrong…Most people deserve to be happy and It's good to have friends but people who have friends or families in real life are usually more focused on them ( which is completely understandable) & have less time for others + I simply don't want to be replaced by anyone..I kind of envy people who can call others , true friends given I don't have an emotional bond with any of my acquaintances. Whenever I hear that others have friends I simply get sad because (believe it or not) If I had to choose between 20 people to talk to (Acquaintances) and one special person - I'd choose that one special person without any hesitation . I also want to talk to others on a daily basis mainly because..I want to see someone’s effort & be someone's first choice - not another person to have random conversations with..Why I'd rather talk to people from my continent? Well..Mainly because I would like to see someone I'd get along with - In the far future - face to face :) + I don't want to wait any longer than 6 hours to receive a message - Especially given most people are always available on social media sites & keep their phones in a pocket.Once you receive & open my message - get back to me (If you're as serious as I am & really need a true friend) waiting 6 hours to receive a message is more than enough I'm by no means criticising people who don't want to talk to others often / People who really are super busy & People who want to find someone to have non important conversations with - I'm aware that not everyone has the same expectations which is why everything you're reading now - is here for a reason.All I'm suggesting is - I don't want anything temporary and I don't want to be the one always giving more than receiving.Listen people - I used to ignore being..ignored by others..always being just an option to talk to during tough times or moments of boredom.I was too young to realize that I was never important enough for most people that were a part of my life I don't know who needs to hear this but..No one is too busy to make time for you! People make excuses to avoid others because they prioritize everything and (maybe) everyone..over them. It's true that most people really are busy - but It takes only a few seconds to start a conversation (If you're into short messages) and a few minutes (1-10/15) to type a long message Don't let anyone lie to you. Truth is that most people either don't like you enough to make time for you or just simply - feel no need to talk to others often but are they too busy? No..You don't need to send me a message just to ask me and tell me "Do you really want to talk daily? I like long messages but I can't promise to contact you often" If you really are unsure please don't send me a message.I don't need more acquaintances aka people to talk to - occasionallyI'm not trying to sound rude - I just don't want to meet new people and get emotionally attached - only to end up being left alone after weeks or months of daily conversations.I'm sick of that never ending story and always meeting people who ghost me without a single word (even if everything seems to be ok) or people who "change priorities" over time & become like strangers…I don't want to go through this ever again.Let me tell you one thing – A true friend would never just give up on you for no reason :)It’s always possible to find someone to have a random conversation with – someone willing to send you one message once or twice a week..but..It’s almost impossible to find people willing to make time for you. I’m not asking a busy person to make time for me by changing some plans! Absolutely not! I’m here to find someone who wants to talk daily (throughout the day or maybe even night) of one’s own will.Someone looking for the same kind of connection.Strong friendships are based on mutual support. One of the best things you can do for a friend in need, is just to be there for them when they want to talk.I often see posts from people who always say how friendless they are because they don't feel loved or appreciated by their "friends" remember! A true friend - someone who truly likes you or someone who wants to get to know you - will always find time for you. 🙂 I'm not really interested in small talk/short messages - I love long and meaningful conversations. It's so easy to find someone who loves abbreviations and questions like "How are you?" How was your day? Or what are you interested in? But so hard/almost impossible to find a person who knows how to keep a conversation going & show others some effort.Building and maintaining friendships takes time and effort.Never allow pursuits or possessions to become bigger priorities than your relations with other people.Close friendships are so important to us because they are so difficult to form + Having friends can help you feel as if you belong to something that brings purpose and connection to your life • I do NOT respond to any „Hey,hmu” or „u want to talk” type of messages (super short messages or messages full of abbreviations – I literally can’t stand abbreviations and acronyms in text messages) ALL messages full of abbreviations will immediately be ignored.I also don't like it when people ignore everything I say in private messages just to focus on some question or? Start talking only about themselves.. I love conversations with people refering to every part of my messages - not just some question. • No dirty messages PLEASE.I'm not looking for anyone to flirt with and I'm not looking for a partner either. No NSWF profiles..I always check people's profiles (Even comment history) - To avoid guys,trying to get inappropriate photos from adult women or? flirt with them & If your comment history is full of rude comments - you and I wouldn't get along! I can't stand people who judge other people and use vulgar words to describe them or? Make fun of them.Respect is very important • If both (you and I) are from the same country (I live in a non-English speaking country ) - I want to communicate with you in our first language! No - Not because I don't understand English because as you see - I do. Why then? English is simply overrated and people don't appreciate other languages as much as they should. So.. If we're from the same country and you want to talk only in English (which is quite common on reddit) - Talk to someone else. I just simply don't want to talk to a person from the same country - in a foreign language as It's just something I don't understand even If all you want is to practice your english • Please only adult people 18-36 age range (I'm 27) • I don’t respond to messages I don’t find interesting even If they're long - If after receiving and reading your message I don't feel comfortable or think "I wouldn't get along with him/her" I simply do not respond (what I’m suggesting is that I don’t always respond to someone’s first or second message because..sometimes you just know If you’d get along with someone or not- I’d never ignore anyone after days or weeks of daily conversations though) just because I don’t want to do anything forcefully & because I don’t want to lead anyone on. I read all messages but I definitely don't respond to all of them! I want to make it clear because I don't want to be accused of not responding and not reading people's messages! - Some people don't message me back as well and even though It is a bit disappointing I'm ok with that! - as long as there's no emotional bond - I think it's ok to not respond to someone's first or second message If people think they wouldn't get along! I can't stand being ignored after days or weeks of daily conversation and seeing people changing priorities but that's something different - something I don't want to go through ever again for real If I'm really interested in someone's message - I respond within a matter of minutes - max 6 hours (If I'm in bed - just sleeping) you won't even hear from me "I'm too busy" because I know myself and If I really was too busy to make time for others - I wouldn't be here. I either want to talk to someone..or not.I don't want to pretend someone I'm not and always try to find some cheap excuses to avoid others. (unlike some people) • Don’t ask me “Can you tell me something about yourself?” If you really want to get to know me - you can ask me questions :) I'm an open book. • It would be better If you guys were into emojis - just like me - just to describe your emotions through text. Two emojis - 🙂 and 🙁 are completely enough I just don't like emotionless messages.I also don't like it when people say "yeah" or yea"as it sounds dismissively. • I want to talk on reddit first (just to make sure If I'd get along with you ) before moving to Discord or some other app • Time response matters to me a lot! It matters to me whether I get a message back after one hour,three hours,6 hours or..12 hours and even..after a couple of days..And If you're another person just looking for one day conversation and then? "Disappear" for some amount of time longer than one day to come back and apologize me for being busy - don't even leave me a message.I just want to be honest with you from the start.I'm interested only in daily conversations Why can’t you see any of my interests listed down below? Because what really matters to me is..who you are (If you’re honest,talkative,understanding,caring and trustworthy – for example) just simply – It matters to me what you’re like! not what you like.Don’t get me wrong – you can tell me what your hobbies are but in my personal opinion,common interests are important mainly when you want to find a gaming buddy (for example) or If you want to meet someone to hang out with in real life and..go bowling for example.What most people seem to care about are other people's interests – I don’t. I get along with other people despite having completely different hobbies but I absolutely don’t get along with people way different than me (different expectations and outlook on life– way different sense of humor or personality traits – It’s just an example) It doesn't make ANY DIFFERENCE to me If you're a gamer or? Someone interested in photography! It doesn't make any difference - > as long as you're talkative and kind and If you also want to find someone willing to stay in your life..for good - But If you're into small talk and all you want is to...type and receive super short messages or If you're here only because you're bored and don't know what to do + If you're a very sarcastic person - I'm definitely not for you!I don't get along with overly sarcastic people turning everything into a joke. Friendships should be natural – not forced. Both people wanting to be friends should feel comfortable and have something in common. No - not necessarily a similar taste in music or movies but something else..Most friendships don't fizzle out because of people not having the same hobbies but..because they just simply have different expectations when It comes to something important.I'm not here out of boredom and trust me - I'm not here to meet as many people as possible.I choose quality over quantity.I higly value myself and my time & Sometimes one person but a person who makes you feel comfortable and understood - is more than enough :) We ALL can choose what kind of people we’d like to talk to and maybe even become really good friends with and I? I don’t want anyone to be disappointed.We all have some expectations after all.I know that people don't have to talk everyday to be friends but I'm interested only in daily conversations with someone also interested in talking dailyIf you really need someone to talk to due to loneliness and If you have time to talk to me daily (throughout the day and maybe even night)I always make time for others.I'm literally always available.I could even stay up all night long only to talk to someone. I’m ready to commit but only If there’s some chemistry between me and someone else.I don’t do anything forcefully. If you want to talk to me tell me your story - tell me why you're here, what kind of friend would you like to meet :) Et cetera.Such messages are way more interesting to me than...someone's long list of hobbies. I know! It's unusual on reddit but I don't make friends based on hobbies..I want to meet someone with the same mindset as mine to finally feel understood and get close to someone new.You can share your problems with me - I absolutely don't mind "complaining" as I've been through a lot in my life.What do people usually tell you when you tell them that's something's wrong? "Don't complain" or "Life's not over yet - one day you'll be happy" or "There are worse situations than yours" and..obviously "Find a therapist" Life's not a fairytale and sometimes things don't go as planned.Emotions shouldn't be bottled up.I'm sick of people always telling others "everything's gonna be ok" move on " & more..Trust me people - not everyone wants to hear "Just believe in yourself and everything's gonna be ok" Some people take it as reassurance. But others see it as false hope. Imagine being told that things will be okay, only for them to get worse..Do you guys know why telling someone "everything's gonna be ok" Is wrong? Because you can't see the future. You can't guarantee others that one day they'll finally be happy + when It comes to social interactions - We're only responsible for ourselves - not for others & as you guys know people let us down quite often (sometimes even when there's no reason) so instead of telling people how they should move on,forget everything and be happy or asking them to find a therapist - be there for them! Always be willing to listen to them If you really like them or want to get to know them & don't suggest everyone in a tough situation to find a therapist because a therapist won't ever replace a true friend + It's quite normal to be disappointed If people always do something to hurt you.Sharing your hardships with other people in a very similar situation or exactly the same one - is VERY helpful If the other person understands you & wants to start all over by just letting it all out & feeling emotional support instead of always hearing some "positive quotes" or someone saying "Stop complaining let's talk about something else"Everyone needs a shoulder to cry on. I appreciate sensitive people who always try to understand others.Empathy is everything Our world needs more peace 🤗 I've seen a lot of rude comments on reddit.If you don't agree with me - OK but please don't criticize me + Not everyone is here to ask for advice.Listen people - I know how different my post is & I know It won't be easy for me to find what or rather who - I'm looking for BUT I always want to be myself instead of pretending someone I'm not and lying to others.I know It would be easier if (like others) I had less expectations but I I know what I want and honestly? If my post was different..I wouldn't be me.Even If I won't meet a person I'd get along with - that's ok! but don't give me any unsolicited advice because I wouldn't change for someone who doesn't even know me pretty much as I wouldn't want to change anyone else.I'm not trying to "fit in" and be like everyone else - just to get more attention.Accept me for who I am or let go - is my motto.I'm not here to argue with anyone and to make fun of others. Please - If you're a completely different person than the described type of person I'm looking for (If you love abrreviations,If you don't need an emotional connection,If you're sarcastic and quiet) or If you simply disagree with my post - don't force yourself to send me a message.I want my new potential friendship,to be natural which is why I want you to contact me If your needs are the same - I don't want you to try to change yourself only to please me - Pretending to be someone you're not - is the worst.I know It's possible to find what I'm looking for as I had conversations with people looking for exactly the same thing and being nice to me - I want to believe in my luck again as I had it a few times on reddit - I've recently lost someone I thought could be a friend of mine (such a perfect match) and I'm sad but I want to finally be happy again & find someone always wanting to talk - sending me random pictures throughout the day - food pictures or pictures of some animals and what is the most important to me? To find people who value online friendships as much as they would value real life ones as there's another human being on the other side No comments please.Only Private messages and chat requests.I don't really like public conversations and I also do not respond to comments so If you want to send me a message just do it without saying "You can DM me" + I'm online almost all the time and yes - I am very selective but If I had to choose between having another (new) acquaintance and being in the same situation as I currently am - I'd always choose second option.I don't need more people to talk to every now and then and any chit chat so please think twice before you decide to send me a message
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2023.06.02 14:56 SomeOldHippieChick Welcome to a SpecialToke & Tidy Fridee!

Remember to take your 💊, start a load of 👗👚👖👕👔🩳🧦, give yourself & your plants a drink (if they need it) and let’s get this shit started!!
I apologize for missing Toke & Tidy Tuesday- Hope you’ll accept this Fridee Tidy instead!
Y’all!! Do you see what I have?!?! My loveliest entwife, u/rhymeswithorangey commissioned our very own u/suntmint to paint me a StonerOtter!! OH MY GOD, Y’ALL!! 🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰
Sun: The layers!! You know I love your layers so much! I love the fireflies & the grass & the otter’s face and the dark trees & the color of the night sky and the stars… it’s just everything. I love it! Thanks for sharing your talents with me!
Orangey: My love. You knew. You always know all the things, my beautiful, weedy witch. It’s perfect for me! Like you- you are perfect for me. Thank you for being so amazing & for organizing the absolute best birthday present (aside from seeing you in 20 days!). I’ve waited my whole life for you & I’m so glad we found each other. I love you! ❤️❤️❤️
Thanks for indulging my mush 🥰yall! Ok! Let’s get back to the task at hand: Toking & Tidying on this amazing Fridee!! I’m having a bowl of Salad in my Dulce bongo and I’ve made some Cuban coffee for the first time! My neighbors are from Cuba & taught me! It’s gonna be delicious!
Here’s a fun one: What rituals or rules or traditions do you follow during a sesh? I’m thinking about that post from yesterday where someone had to “buy in” to the sesh. With cash money!! A lot of cash money!! That’s not at all what I would refer to as good Hippie Etiquette. It surprised me so I started thinking that there are probably a bunch of smoking customs I’m not familiar with. (Duh!) What are yours? Do you have any suspect ones? Any gripes 👀? Any super cool ones? Or, do ya just get high however ya get high? Share with us while we ride the Weedmobile through the cracks & crevices that need to be tidied!!
Here’s my list: First Bong Hit of the Day ✅, Remake the Cuban coffee. The right way. (Delish!) ✅ 🙄; Clean, organize & check weed stock in my Trunk of Funk; Clean & unmess the weed table; Bong hit; PICK UP ALL THE FUCKING TRASH. THOSE PACKING PEANUTS, TOO!!; Keep doing laundry. Don’t stop. It doesn’t; Roll a jay & hit it a bunch; Tidy the bathroom (mirrors, too!); Clean the kitchen!
I was gonna skip the instructions but it’s Friday so maybe no one knows how to Toke & Tidy on Friddees. Here ya go:
  1. Do a thing. It can be as simple & specific as “Pick up that cannabis leaf sock that’s been growing dust bunnies under the couch,” or as broad & involved as “Clean the whole house, the pets, the kids, the cars & the bongs!”
  2. Take a toke & then come back here for a dopamine hit! Reddit, read, & respond for a few minutes, then get back to work on the next task!
  3. Wash, rinse, repeat until your house is perfect or you get high enough that you no longer give a shit! 😆😂🤣
I missed y’all this week! Let’s GSD together before the weekend is in full effect! Rock on with your bad selves & remember to munch the healthy stuff 🥗🍒🥑🥭🍍🍇 when the munchies come knocking!
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2023.06.02 14:52 RollOk6411 Nurses and bullying

3 months ago a close family member of mine started a uni course for nursing which she does about 2 days in a hospital and 3 days in uni (not 100% but something like that). Since she has started she hasn’t received proper training at work and mainly does jobs like cleaning elderly patience and helping them with going to the bathroom. Whenever she asks questions about where certain things are she is scrutinised for not knowing. A lot of the time she over hears nurses gossiping about her and always getting picked on by the senior nurses and a whole bunch of dirty looks. She has gone to the head nurse (sorry don’t know the proper terms) and the nurse manager however nothing has been done. She is now going through mental health issues such as severe anxiety about going to work and is days away from quitting because she is absolutely miserable. I’ve been trying my best to convince her not to leave but she is dreading doing another 2 years there. Does anyone have any advise on what she can do, who she can contact and should she tell her uni tutor on what is happening in her placement hospital?
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2023.06.02 14:51 WoJoJoeJoe 29 [M4F] have not been able to bust my nut in three months, would like for my first nut in a while to not be a lonely one.

Let me explain what I’m looking for, due to some medical issues I have not been able to engage in any sexual activity for about three months now and I consider myself a pretty sexual person so that’s been kinda tough alongside the fact the issue I was dealing with made every day life more of a pain, I did not have any sort of transmissible disease but I’d rather not go into any more detail on my medical history. I got surgery done two weeks ago and it was a success, I can live a normal life again and I have been SO GOD DAMN HORNY. What I hope to find is someone willing to be patient with someone that’s been out of the game for awhile and let me have control and set the tempo for the night. I’m not looking for full on penetrative sex, my doctor told me to abstain from sexual activity for a couple of weeks and It’s already been that long but I want to give myself a little more time to recover, at least another week or two, in that meantime we can get to know each other a little so we aren’t complete strangers when we get naked together. What are we gonna do then? Well to be honest I wouldn’t mind someone to just be there, turn me on and just masturbate with me, we can touch each other and maybe have a little fun but like I said I want to take things a little easy this first time, but I’d love a naked woman to touch herself and talk dirty to me while I stroke my thick cock, though if you’d let me cum on your tits or face that would be great. I’m 6’1, average build, bald with a beard. If you are interested DM me some random shit so I know you ain’t a bot and we can discuss more.
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